ebernick Are you happy with the results in your life? Are you happy with the results in your health, your career, your finances, your relationships, your spiritual and your social life?
Listen, the results in your life are a reflection of you. Your results were created by your thoughts, your beliefs and your choices.
The good news is that if you are not happy with the results in your life, you can choose to create new, positive results which will make you happy. In the previous five blogs on this subject, I have shared five things which you could use to invest in this process. In our final blog in this series, the last (sixth) component is probably the most important, namely: choose your thoughts very carefully, since they will create your reality.
Positive thoughts create positive results. Negative thoughts create negative results. Life is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
CREATE NEW RESULTS WITH NEW THINKING
Changing your results which you are unhappy with starts with an awareness of what it is you want to change. Become a student of your own life. Evaluate the results you are not happy with. Understand what led to those results. What thoughts and (limiting, inhibiting) beliefs led to those results?
Have you been using the “A, B, C language of victims”? Accuse, Blame, Complain. It’s never your fault. It’s the economy, the government, the competition, your negative relatives.
Look, the day you choose to stop using ‘victim language’ by taking full responsibility for the results in your life, is the day you are free to change your life for the better. When you choose to take control of what’s happening in your life, you will be empowered to choose your new results.
This gift of choice must start with your choosing your thoughts. Consider: everythingstarted with a thought. Listen, you started with a thought (confirm this with your parents; they had a thought, nine months later the reality was manifest). Every organisation, each one affecting dozens, hundreds, thousands or even millions, started with a thought.
Do you feel the power of your ability to choose your thoughts as well as your power to create whatever results you want in your life?
In their book, ‘Three Feet from Gold’ (by Greg Reid and Sharon Lechter), which is a sequel to Napoleon Hill’s ‘Think and Grow Rich’, the mentor tells the student:
“In 5 years you will be the same person you are now, except for two things: the people you associate with and the books you read.”
Look, ‘books’ would also refer to CD’s, DVD’s, podcasts, etc. But you get the point, don’t you? Your choice of association (people, books, etc.) will determine what thoughts you choose to influence your mind and your sub-conscious mind, and ultimately your beliefs, choices and actions. Which all determine the results you get in your life.
Your thoughts create your reality: choose your thoughts with purpose and clarity, then accept (and hopefully enjoy) the results you chose.
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